Love is

  • thinking that Groom's atrocious taste in music (think Neil Diamond and big hair bands un-ironically) is kind of cute, even though you would never borrow his iPod
  • having Groom realize that you (and his former roommate) have much better taste in music than he does and watching him try to learn about new (to him) music genres, and learn how to use said iPod
  • being really really grumpy, and having Groom, to whom you have chosen to direct said grumpiness, send you a love song to cheer you up.
  • realizing that while Groom's taste in music is on a slow upward curve, his patience and sense of humor are still fully in tact.